Monday, August 30, 2010

Soccer Practice

John is starting soccer this fall, in a U5 league. I am his coach (along with another dad) and am trying to contain my excitement. Much to my delight, John actually loves soccer. He and I played in the front yard last night, first with some older kids from the neighborhood, then later with Mary.

Playing soccer in our front yard
John's team is called Team Canada. You see, each team in his league is named after a team from the World Cup. Canada, in case you didn't know, didn't qualify for the 2010 World Cup. So how did John's team get named after our neighbors to the North? John's team was the 32nd team formed for the league and the only team left from the World Cup was North Korea. The people in charge of John's league elected not to name a team after a member of the Axis of Evil and settled instead on the non-threatening Canadians instead.

The kids can also choose their own nickname. So far John's favorite suggestion is the Lightning Fire Cheetahs. We'll see what the other kids suggest this week at practice.

Monday, August 23, 2010

Mary's first day of third grade

Mary proudly walked to school today with the rest of the kids from our neighborhood (8 in all, including 2 new kids starting kindergarten). She is in the same class as Sully again, which both girls were very happy about.

Mary ready for school


Mary and Sully

Friday, August 6, 2010

Mary finally lost her tooth!

After months of waiting, Mary's top tooth finally fell out at camp today. Mary was relieved and excited to show friends and family.

Saturday, July 31, 2010

Photos from California Trip

Mary, John and I traveled to California last week for long weekend of significant family milestones. We celebrated Baba's 70th birthday, Big Rig's 80th birthday, Grandma Trish and Rig's 30th wedding anniversary, and Aunt Lex's engagement to Maxim.


The kids were great travelers and we got to visit Alcatraz, go hot tubbing and horse-back riding. We also played A LOT of Uno. Some photos are below.

Baba and the kids on Alcatraz


Aunt Lex and John on the ferry from Alcatraz

Aunt Lex and Mary on Alcatraz

Aunt Lex and Maxim

Mary and her flower arrangement

Grandma Trish and Big Rig

Thursday, July 15, 2010

Mary, John and Baba playing Uno

Baba is visiting this week and he and the kids have been playing a lot of games -- especially Uno.




The music, "You're My Best Poker Hand," is by T-Bone Walker, an old blues musician who was an influence on Jimi Hendrix.

Tuesday, July 13, 2010

World Cup Final

I have documented in this blog my affection for the Dutch team -- even though they hadn't been playing the total football they've championed since the 1970s. So when the final started, I was planted on my couch wearing an orange Netherlands jersey I bought on a trip to Amsterdam 10 years ago.

By end of the initial 90 minutes, I was so disgusted with the thuggish tactics of the Dutch players that I peeled off my orange shirt and put on a blue one instead. But then, when Iniesta dove to get Heitinga sent off in overtime, I removed my blue shirt and put on a USA jersey. It was a very disappointing final match, although Spain did play better soccer (or at least tried to when they weren't being hacked down Holland) and deserved to win.

As for the Dutch, the entire tournament was like a Greek tragedy for them. For decades, they had been praised by fans, journalists and pundits for playing lovely, attacking football. Yet they were denied again and again the ultimate prize: being crowned World Cup champions. So at some point during the last several years, they repudiated all that had made total football great and instead played like the Detroit Pistons of the late 1980s. I half expected to see Bill Lambier sitting on the bench exhorting the players to foul and dive and whine even more.

The new, thuggish strategy worked -- Holland got to a World Cup final for the first time in more than 30 years. But in a cruel irony, they found themselves playing a team that had embraced many of the principles of total football -- the Spanish. And ultimately, the Dutch were beaten by a team that actually tried to play soccer and were punished by the Soccer Gods for abandoning all that is wonderful about the beautiful game.

The third place game turned out to be a much better match than the final. Uruguay and my favorite player of the tournament, Diego Forlan, fell 3-2 to the Germans. FIFA did agree with my assessment of Forlan and gave him the Golden Ball award as the best player in the tournament. He's 31 and unlikely to play in the 2014 World Cup, but I'm glad he got to shine in South Africa as he almost single handedly (well, not single handedly; his teammate Suarez had a single hand that was also pretty important) got tiny Uruguay to within one game of the final.

Speaking of Suarez, I had no problems with his handball to stop the ball in the game against Ghana. Any player would have done the same thing and would have expected to be sent off -- which Suarez was. It was like a player in basketball committing a hard foul on a fast break to prevent the other team from scoring an easy layup.

What I find much more troubling that sort of blatant cheating is the more subtle act of diving. I hate it and think it leaves a much blacker mark on the game than what Suarez did. I said in the last World Cup and I'll say again: there should be post-match reviews of diving by players. If they are judged to have gone down with no contact, they should be given a yellow card after the game. 

My suggestion will probably not be implemented (Sepp Blatter is not returning my e-mails). But I do think that by the next World Cup, there will be goal-line technology to judge whether a ball crossed the line or not. There may also be extra officials, either on the field itself or on the sidelines, to help the refs get more of the calls right.

There was a lot to like about the 2010 World Cup. The late-game heroics by the US team. The emergence of Michael Bradely as a top midfielder. Tshabalala's strike against Mexico in the opening game. Carlos Teves' cannon (also against Mexico). Giovanni von Bronkhorsts' unstoppable shot against Uruguay. The plucky New Zealand team (who were the only team never to lose a game at this World Cup -- it's true). Some great individual players, like David Villa (Spain), Bastian Schweinsteiger (Germany), Kiesuke Honda (Japan), Carlos Puyol (Spain) and Wesley Sneijder (Holland).

But what the tournament showed me is that soccer is really still a team sport. Nearly all the "best" players in the world who were featured in the Nike "Write the Future" commercial had poor showings at the World Cup. The squads that played as a team tended to do more and go further than those who may have been too reliant on their big-name players. Of course, you've got to have great players on your team to go far, and the final 4 all had some fantastic players -- but most were not mentioned before the tournament in the same breath as Rooney, Ronaldo, Messi or Ribery.

The next World Cup is 4 years away -- that seems like a long time. Mary will be 12 years old and John will be 8 (note that both of them were born in World Cup years -- coincidence? I don't think so). But there will be plenty of soccer to fill up my free time between now and then, and much of it may be played by John.

He took to soccer like a fish to water, not only watching many of the games with me, but playing soccer in the house. We have a long hallway between his room and Mary's. John has spent hours kicking and dribbling a soccer ball from one end of the hall to another, shouting "gooooaaaall" when he puts the ball between my legs and into his sister's room. I'll be signing him up to play on a soccer team this fall. And I'm sure I will enjoy watching his games more than I enjoyed any of the World Cup games I've seen during the last month. It won't even be close.